1. Be confident: I like who I am and you should like me too.

2. Tantalize him: I know you want me.

3. Be mysterious: There’s a part of me you may never know.

4. Raise your market value: Others like me and want me.

5. Remain independent: I want you, but I don’t need you.

6. See behind his mask: I know you better than you think I do.

7. Keep him off the pedestal: You’re not all that!

8. Fight your own dragons: I’ve got it handled, honey.

9. Know how to be a bitch: Don’t even think about it!

10. Know when to pull away: Call me when you get a clue.

From Carolyn’s book Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With.