Building Relationships, Creating Change
Compassionate guidance from Carolyn Bushong, therapist, author, and relationship expert helping individuals and couples create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
About Carolyn Bushong
Carolyn Bushong, L.P.C. is a Licensed Professional Counselor with 30 years of experience working with people who want to solve personal issues, OR find a healthy romantic relationship, OR improve a relationship they are already in. She has authored and published 3 relationship books, and McCall’s called her one of the top relationship therapists in the country. Besides her successful private practice as a Relationship Therapist in Denver, Colorado, her credits include 4 appearances on the Oprah show, a segment appearance on the View (reviewing her book The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make), and other television appearances too numerous to mention (click here to see the list). Then her mate Alen retired, then they became snowbirds into Sean, Arizona. Later moving there permanently.
She has given relationship advice on the FM Morning Drive radio air waves for years, including her own talk show called “Passion Phones.” She is called a relationship expert for quotes in magazines and books, such as US Weekly, Cosmo, and First for Women. She has given seminars and lectures around the country, and writes articles for on-line article banks.
Books by Carolyn Bushong
Carolyn Bushong’s books provide practical insights and guidance for building stronger relationships, improving communication, and fostering personal growth. Explore her published works and discover tools to create healthier, more meaningful connections.
Loving Him Without Losing You
Loving Him Without Losing You shows women how to have a healthy, intimate relationship with a man without giving up your power. When women fall in love (even strong, independent women), they have a tendency to over-attach and over-give in their relationships.
Loving Him Without Losing You shows you how to develop a strong sense of self that won’t allow any man to ever take your identity away from “you.” Learn to develop such a strong sense of self that all your relationships become healthy, no more addictive relationships.
The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make
The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make provides relationship help in showing individuals and couples which relationship mistakes you and/or your mate are making. Most of us don’t know what we’re doing wrong, i.e. you may think you’re communicating, only to find out your simply nagging or thinking your mate should figure it out.
The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make helps you understand what your doing wrong that keeps you from establishing healthy relationships. Once you know what your relationship problems are, I show you how to resolve them.
Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With
Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With is a relationship self help book that walks you through specific issues of couples and shows you how to resolve each one. Is the romance gone? Is he no longer helpful? Do you want to be more of a priority to him again? Learn how to make deals, whether it’s about treating you with more respect, helping with housework, dealing with each others friends, or handling money issues, plus other valuable behavior modification techniques. I’ll help you get back the loving and cooperative man you met.
What Carolyn's Clients have to say
I’m now handling rejection and confronting abusers!
You probably have no idea how important the insight and guidance you’ve provided has been. In the few times we met there was, each time, an important insight that will help me for the rest of my life. Most recently it was that I need to watch being “under” sensitive to abuse and “over” sensitive to rejection. Also, when you said it was insulting to me for my mother to not believe I have my own answers and know what it is I need to talk about–was very helpful.
I also want to thank you for being the kind of person you are–honest, forthright, direct, warm, kind. I had been to 2 therapists before you, one I went to 5 times and one I went to 2 times and no one helped me like you did. I got that genuine feeling from you right away–and I’m forever grateful.
~ Kate, Chicago, IL
Thanks for making me strong and helping me move on in life!
It has been over 20 years since we first met and I joined your group therapy. I was trying to adjust to single life after a 35-year marriage. Relating to the other women in the group was vital to me and the journaling was the final solution. I woke up one night at 1am and began writing furiously, page after page, and finally felt strong enough to leave group. For some time after that, I revisited the journals to give me strength. One day I realized I had no need to read them anymore so I called my sister-in-law and we went to a campground in the foothills. It was a beautiful fall day with just a bit of ice on the edges of the little stream to give us notice that winter was on his way. Page by page we burned the journals and with the smoke released them to the universe. I felt a profound sense of peace and I could go forward to embrace the rest of my life – and now I’m 81-years-old!
Thank you Carolyn!
~ NK
You're a great dating coach!
Response to “Mr. Big” Story”: I want you to know that your free relationship newsletters have helped encourage me to start dating again. I’ve been divorced for 5 years and am in my forties. I’m learning how not to be so needy, nor to discuss too much during the first few meeting times, and not be so quick in desiring a relationship. I really enjoyed the advice you gave Sandy regarding her “Mr. Big.” There is so much for me to learn in this dating game. I appreciate that you have given us the permission to say what we want or need in a relationship before it goes on too long or without winning or expecting them to know what we want! And just because there’s a recession, it does not push me towards wanting or needing a man. And more so, I would not take back my ex for all the money in the world!!
~ J
What Carolyn's Clients have to say
I’m now handling rejection and confronting abusers!
You probably have no idea how important the insight and guidance you've provided has been. In the few times we met there was, each time, an important insight that will help me for the rest of my life. Most recently it was that I need to watch being "under" sensitive to abuse and "over" sensitive to rejection. Also, when you said it was insulting to me for my mother to not believe I have my own answers and know what it is I need to talk about--was very helpful.
I also want to thank you for being the kind of person you are--honest, forthright, direct, warm, kind. I had been to 2 therapists before you, one I went to 5 times and one I went to 2 times and no one helped me like you did. I got that genuine feeling from you right away--and I'm forever grateful.
Thanks for making me strong and helping me move on!
It has been over 20 years since we first met and I joined your group therapy. I was trying to adjust to single life after a 35-year marriage. Relating to the other women in the group was vital to me and the journaling was the final solution. I woke up one night at 1am and began writing furiously, page after page, and finally felt strong enough to leave group. For some time after that, I revisited the journals to give me strength. One day I realized I had no need to read them anymore so I called my sister-in-law and we went to a campground in the foothills. It was a beautiful fall day with just a bit of ice on the edges of the little stream to give us notice that winter was on his way. Page by page we burned the journals and with the smoke released them to the universe. I felt a profound sense of peace and I could go forward to embrace the rest of my life – and now I’m 81-years-old!
Thank you Carolyn!
You're a great dating coach!
Response to “Mr. Big” Story”: I want you to know that your free relationship newsletters have helped encourage me to start dating again. I’ve been divorced for 5 years and am in my forties. I’m learning how not to be so needy, nor to discuss too much during the first few meeting times, and not be so quick in desiring a relationship. I really enjoyed the advice you gave Sandy regarding her “Mr. Big.” There is so much for me to learn in this dating game. I appreciate that you have given us the permission to say what we want or need in a relationship before it goes on too long or without winning or expecting them to know what we want! And just because there’s a recession, it does not push me towards wanting or needing a man. And more so, I would not take back my ex for all the money in the world!!
Articles by Carolyn
Top 10 Sex Mistakes
Things Men Do That Bum Women Out
The Ten Commandments of Keeping Personal Power (and Keeping Him/Her in Love with You)
Relationship & Couples Counseling in Carolyn provides relationship counseling in Tucson, AZ for individuals and couples navigating communication problems, recurring conflict, trust concerns, emotional disconnection, and other relationship challenges. Her couples counseling in Tucson, AZ provides a supportive and confidential setting where partners can better understand what is happening in their relationship and address issues that may have been difficult to resolve on their own. Sessions may focus on improving communication, breaking unhealthy patterns, rebuilding connection, setting healthy boundaries, or working through long-standing concerns. Carolyn takes the time to understand each relationship and provides guidance based on the specific circumstances, challenges, and goals of the people involved. In-person counseling is available for clients in Tucson, with online options available when appropriate.
Dating & Relationship Coaching in Tucson, AZ
Dating can become frustrating when you keep experiencing similar patterns, struggle to find meaningful connections, or are unsure how to move forward in your relationships. Carolyn offers dating and relationship coaching for singles in Tucson who want a better understanding of their dating experiences and relationship goals. As a professional dating coach in Tucson, AZ, she helps clients recognize recurring patterns, build confidence, communicate their needs more effectively, and approach dating with greater self-awareness. Coaching can also be helpful when you are preparing to enter a new relationship or trying to create healthier relationship habits after difficult past experiences. For clients who prefer virtual support, online dating coaching can provide a flexible alternative to in-person sessions.
Individual Therapy in Tucson, AZ
Sometimes relationship difficulties are connected to personal concerns, experiences, or patterns that are best explored individually. Carolyn provides individual therapy in Tucson, AZ for people who want professional support with personal growth, self-esteem, relationship patterns, life changes, and challenges that may be affecting their emotional well-being or relationships. Individual sessions provide a private and supportive environment to understand yourself more clearly, explore behaviors and patterns that may no longer serve you, and consider healthier ways to respond to difficult situations. Whether you are working through a specific personal concern or want to better understand how your experiences influence your relationships, Carolyn can help you explore those issues at your own pace. Online sessions may also be available for clients who prefer virtual counseling.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. Do you offer relationship counseling in Tucson, AZ?
Yes. Carolyn offers relationship counseling in Tucson, AZ, for individuals and couples working through communication problems, recurring conflict, trust concerns, unhealthy relationship patterns, and other challenges. Tucson clients can receive counseling in person, with sessions focused on understanding the underlying issues and developing healthier ways to communicate and connect.
2. What can I expect from couples counseling in Tucson, AZ?
Couples counseling in Tucson, AZ, provides a structured space to address relationship problems with professional guidance. Sessions may focus on communication, recurring arguments, trust, emotional connection, boundaries, or difficult relationship patterns. The goal is to help couples better understand what is happening in their relationship and work toward healthier, more constructive ways of relating.
3. How do I know if relationship counseling is right for my partner or me?
Relationship counseling may be helpful when the same conflicts keep returning, communication has become difficult, trust has been affected, or you feel disconnected from your partner. You do not necessarily need to be in crisis to seek support. Counseling can also help couples understand unhealthy patterns and strengthen a relationship before problems become more difficult to resolve.
4. Do you offer dating coaching for singles in Tucson, AZ?
Yes. Carolyn provides dating coaching for singles in Tucson, AZ, who want guidance navigating dating and building healthier relationships. Coaching can address dating patterns, confidence, communication, relationship expectations, and challenges with finding or maintaining meaningful connections. It can be especially useful for people who want to understand recurring dating experiences and make more intentional relationship choices.
5. Can I receive online relationship counseling in Tucson, AZ?
Yes. Online relationship counseling is available for Tucson clients who prefer virtual sessions. Online counseling can provide a convenient option for addressing communication difficulties, relationship conflicts, dating concerns, and personal relationship patterns without traveling to an office. Whether online or in person, the focus remains on understanding your concerns and developing practical, healthier approaches to relationships.
6. Do you offer relationship counseling in Denver, CO?
Yes. Carolyn provides relationship counseling in Denver, CO, for individuals and couples dealing with communication difficulties, conflict, trust issues, emotional disconnection, and recurring relationship patterns. Counseling provides a confidential setting to explore what is contributing to the problem and work toward healthier communication and relationship dynamics.
7. How can couples counseling in Denver, CO help with recurring relationship problems?
Couples counseling in Denver, CO can help partners identify patterns that repeatedly create conflict and understand how each person contributes to the dynamic. Sessions may address communication, trust, intimacy, boundaries, and unresolved concerns. Professional guidance can give couples a structured opportunity to work through difficult issues rather than continuing the same cycle on their own.
8. Do you offer individual therapy in Denver, CO for personal or relationship concerns?
Yes. Individual therapy in Denver, CO can help people explore personal concerns that affect their emotional well-being and relationships. Sessions may address self-esteem, personal growth, relationship patterns, life challenges, or recurring difficulties in connecting with others. Individual counseling can also be appropriate when you want to work on yourself before, during, or after addressing relationship concerns.