Books

Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With is a relationship self help book that walks you through specific issues of couples and shows you how to resolve each one. Is the romance gone? Is he no longer helpful? Do you want to be more of a priority to him again? Learn how to make deals, whether it’s about treating you with more respect, helping with housework, dealing with each others friends, or handling money issues, plus other valuable behavior modification techniques. I’ll help you get back the loving and cooperative man you met.

Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With shows you that by changing your own behavior, you can change his too. Couples in trouble tell me, “We were fighting over silly things and feeling so unloved by each other. Now were making lots of deals and are emotionally close again. Resolving our relationship problems seems so simple when you explain it”.

9 Steps to Resolving Issues In Your Relationship

1. Stop blaming him or her, it takes two to have a bad relationship.
2. Recognize which role you play: the victim or controller.
3. Change your behavior, instead of trying to change his (or hers).
4. Use behavior modification instead of nagging to get what you want.
5. Recognize your mate’s insecurities.
6. Become an equal partner by taking equal control and responsibility
7. Communicate your needs and recognize his (or her) needs, then make a win/win deal.
8. Negotiate a deal that works for both of you for each problem area.
9. Have consequences for broken deals, and pull back when he/she doesn’t cooperate.

The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make provides relationship help in showing individuals and couples which relationship mistakes you and/or your mate are making. Most of us don’t know what we’re doing wrong, i.e. you may think you’re communicating, only to find out your simply nagging or thinking your mate should figure it out.

The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes Smart People Make helps you understand what your doing wrong that keeps you from establishing healthy relationships. Once you know what your relationship problems are, I show you how to resolve them.

Avoid The 7 Dumbest Relationship Mistakes

1. Stop trying to force intimacy (start let love evolve gradually).
2. Don’t expect your mate to read your mind (communicate exactly what you feel and want).
3. Stop playing the martyr (Stand up and refuse to be treated badly).
4. Don’t be self-righteous (Respect others’ points of view).
5. Don’t rescue others (Take care of yourself instead).
6. Don’t take others for granted (Remember and appreciate what you have).
7. Don’t let passion die (Keep desire alive).

Loving Him Without Losing You shows women how to have a healthy, intimate relationship with a man without giving up your power. When women fall in love (even strong, independent women), they have a tendency to over-attach and over-give in their relationships.

Loving Him Without Losing You shows you how to develop a strong sense of self that won’t allow any man to ever take your identity away from “you.” Learn to develop such a strong sense of self that all your relationships become healthy, no more addictive relationships.

8 Steps to Loving Without Losing Yourself

1. Admit your Past Emotional Dependence and Commit to Change
2. Develop Your Own Identity
3. Stop the “Shoulds” and Forgive Your self for Not Being Perfect
4. Understand Why You Are the Way You Are
5. Express Your Feelings to Get What You Want
6. Confront Those Who Taught You the Bad Behavior
7. Take Risks and Experiment with New Behaviors
8. Control (and be Responsible for) Every Area of Your Life

How to Play the Dating Game

You may think you don’t want to have to “play the game” to find the man of your dreams, but in today’s world, you need to think again. The first few months of dating set the stage for how he will view you for the rest of the relationship. If you do it wrong, he will probably see you as someone he’s eager to get away from. If you play the game correctly, he will see you as a prize he worked hard to get (this is how men invest in a relationship).

Learn the 7 Secrets of the Dating Game

1. Be the Best Person You Can Be (for you, not him).
2. Learn to Leverage With Men.
3. Don’t have sex too soon.
4. Don’t Make these 10 First Date Mistakes.
5. How to Weed Out the Bad Ones.
6. Using Rejection to Get Him to Chase You.
7. How to Train Your Man.