November 21, 2008
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Thanksgiving is a time to pause and
give thanks for what we have been given in life. That
may be more difficult this Thanksgiving because of
what's happening with the economy. Most of us, whether
we've been rich or poor or in between, have a lot less
this holiday. We all have to tighten our belts, but
maybe there's some good to come of it. How many of us
have bought in excess, whether it's clothes, toys for
our kids, houses bigger than we needed, or just
unnecessary "things" that we've wanted? I know I'm
guilty, and yes "buying" is good for the economy, but
not good for us when we can't afford it. I'm looking
much more closely at the prices of items than I ever
have before. It's time to stop the excess and
re-evaluate our priorities. It's a very difficult thing
to do. We hear about people losing their jobs and homes,
and I hope you are not one of them. Several of my
friends have lost their jobs. And my mate Alan, who is a
stockbroker, has his hands full every day as he goes to
work dealing with disgruntled clients as well as another
buy-out of the company on it's way.
I, of course, don't have the answer
for the economy. But I do know that life has a way of
coming full circle and that the pendulum swings from one
side all the way to the other before it settles down.
Over the years, our country went from being prejudice
and sexist to extreme political correctness (and of
course electing Obama). Our relationships went from
being dominated by men to much more female control.
We're now closer to true equality in both areas. Finance
is certainly not my field, but we know things had gotten
out of hand with overspending rampant, and now we are
hopefully hitting bottom so we can rise back up to some
I have been trying to learn this
"don't overspend" lesson for the last few years myself.
I haven't raised my prices in over 3 years, but instead
have cut my expenses. I moved my office to a much less
expensive location (still in Cherry Creek) a year ago
that is really nice, but a little smaller, and most of
my clients like it better because it has easier access
(can reach it from Colorado Blvd. and don't have to come
all the way into Cherry Creek), and it has lots of free
parking! I no longer have a secretary and instead have
improved my skills on the computer. Now if I can just
stop buying so many clothes!
We all need to start figuring out how
to cut back and live more frugally in these economic
times. What can you do to help relieve your own
I know the times are tough, but as
they say, "What doesn't kill you will make you
stronger!" I hope we see a turn around soon, and good
luck to everyone who has lost a job or house or anything
else that's important to them. Let's still stop and be
thankful for what we've had up until now, and be
appreciative of what we still have, especially our
friends and family - and especially that we have our
cheap gas back.!!
New Price for
Therapy for Holidays
Holiday Pricing Special
(now until New Year's Day)
I know my therapy prices are high, but remember that I get to the
bottom of issues very quickly, whether it's marriage counseling or
personal growth issues. In fact, one client told me last week, "I
know we only met for a ˝ hour last week, but you truly made me feel
empowered ...thank you, I needed that!"
Holiday Pricing For Therapy
Four 1- hour Counseling Sessions for $140/hr*.
Usual price $180/hr. Savings: $160.
*To get the price cut, you must book 4 sessions (in next 5 weeks)
before Jan. 1,
Credit or Debit card payment required. May pay as you go, but if you
book less than 4 sessions, those first sessions will be rebilled at
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Things Men Do that Bum Women Out
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What to Expect from Therapy
What Women Want for Valentine's Day
When Harriet Met Dave
Why Men Lie
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Why We Want What We Can't Have
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Carolyn Bushong, L.P.C,
is an expert on relationships and a licensed therapist. She is known
for being one of the top relationship therapists in the country and
the author of 3 relationship books. She has appeared on Oprah, the
View, and many other TV shows, and she has been giving relationship
advice on Denver radio for 10 years. She has been helping people
like you improve your life and relationships for more than 25 years.
Cosmo, US Weekly and other magazines quote her expert relationship
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Bushong always has fresh, up-to-date, hot information on topics
that will inspire you and change your life and improve your
relationships. She has clients all over the country, some who come
into her office and others who receive Carolyn's expert advice
through phone counseling. Carolyn Bushong is an excellent
psychotherapist, but she also lives what she teaches, as she is in a
happy, healthy relationship with Alan, her mate of 21 years.
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including therapy, before your deductible starts all over again in
January. Note that even though I am an "out-of-network" provider for
most insurance companies, most will pay a portion of my services
after you've met your deductible.
How My Therapy Practice Differs from Others
I am a pro-active action-oriented therapist who also believes that
your past affects your present and future. However, instead of
muddling in the old issues, I help you clean them up and move on. I
promote "holding people accountable" for their actions. I help
couples get past their resentments toward each other. I help
divorcees confront their exes and work through issues with their
children. I help stepfamilies solve their differences. I help
singles find out why their relationships don't work and/or how to be
happier (and less needy) as a single. I help victims of abuse
confront their perpetrators. I help disgruntled employees confront
their bosses. I help parents set boundaries with their school-age
children. I help parents confront their adult children who won't
grow up. I help adult children handle their aging parents. I help
those in 12-step programs move on to become self-reliant
individuals. I specialize in handling conflicts and confrontations.
The 5 major goals of my
program are for you to:
Gain self-reliance via strengthened identity.
Learn to se boundaries.
Gain emotional intimacy (and be yourself) in all relationships.
Have better control over your life.
Handle future problems in a healthier way.
How to get Carolyn Bushong's Relationship Advice:
Individual Counseling: l hour or ˝hr sessions in office
or phone, Health Insurance covers a portion. Couples Counseling:
1 ˝ hr. sessions, Health Ins. covers a portion.
Group Counseling: Tuesday night group meets 5:30 - 7:30 pm, 8
members, less expensive.
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