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Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With

(CBPA Psychotherapy Publications, Mar. 2006)
(Adams Media, 2003)

Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With is a relationship self help book that walks you through specific issues of couples and shows you how to resolve each one. Is the romance gone? Is he no longer helpful? Do you want to be more of a priority to him again? Learn how to make deals, whether it’s about treating you with more respect, helping with housework, dealing with each others friends, or handling money issues, plus other valuable behavior modification techniques. I’ll help you get back the loving and cooperative man you met.

Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With shows you that by changing your own behavior, you can change his too. Couples in trouble tell me, “We were fighting over silly things and feeling so unloved by each other. Now were making lots of deals and are emotionally close again. Resolving our relationship problems seems so simple when you explain it”.

Bring Back The Man You Fell In Love With by Carolyn Bushong



9 Steps to Resolving Issues In Your Relationship

  1. Stop blaming him or her, it takes two to have a bad relationship.

  2. Recognize which role you play: the victim or controller.

  3. Change your behavior, instead of trying to change his (or hers).

  4. Use behavior modification instead of nagging to get what you want.

  5. Recognize your mate’s insecurities.

  6. Become an equal partner by taking equal control and responsibility

  7. Communicate your needs and recognize his (or her) needs, then make a win/win deal.

  8. Negotiate a deal that works for both of you for each problem area.

  9. Have consequences for broken deals, and pull back when he/she doesn’t cooperate.

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Negotiating Romance
October 2, 2005
Reviewer: Leslie Halpern, author of "Reel Romance. The Lovers' Guide to the 100 Best Date Movies" and "Dreams on Film." (Central Florida, USA)

This book advises women about what to do when the honeymoon is literally and figuratively over. How can you bring back the romantic man of your dreams? According to Bushong, it's through establishing equal power and honest negotiations.

Using abstract theory and concrete examples, she shows how men will only treat women as badly as the women allow. This simple concept of reclaiming power is one of the most important ideas that runs throughout the book. It can be applied to male-female relationships as well as parenting and on-the-job situations. She offers many examples of how to do this effectively. I tried some of her ideas. They worked.

Her four steps to powerful negotiations seemed a little awkward when I first read them. How can you comfortably introduce a set negotiation formula into a casual conversation? Reluctantly, I tried this, too. It also worked.

"Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With" offers some wonderful suggestions for restoring the love and romance from those early newlywedded years. Most married women would benefit from reading this book.


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